Should African Parents set an age limit to disciplining their wards? Nigerians react 👇
Discipline comes in various forms for an average African parents especially when it comes to correct the wrongs of their wards.
Some African parents believes in the doctrine of “spare the rod and spoil the child” irrespective of the age of the child and this belief is deeply rooted in bible. Others do not go the extra mile to beat their children when they offend, they rather purnish them by denying them their basic allowance or some other things they cherish.
https://twitter.com/instablog9ja/status/1284539484927717376?s=19
On the back of a video circulating on social media about a father who beat her her 18 year old daughter for joining a whatsapp group he warned her against, Nigerians are divided as regards whether what the father did to her is right or wrong.
See reactions 👇
She’s 18 is an agenda of the Occidental culture. Nigeria is another realm entirely. Our culture will not overlook some things at 18.
The earlier you know this, the better for you.👌
— #LifeOfAnExtrovert 🔋💐 (@_Abdulquyum) July 19, 2020
You condemned a father for not beating his 21 years old boy who didn’t sit for exam after paying $21k.
You are also condemning a father flogging his daughter because she’s 18.
For African parents, discipling you is not age bound. The nature might change as you age.
— Tosin Olugbenga (@TosinOlugbenga) July 19, 2020
You're Shouting She's 18 But You're 24 And Your Dad Still Whoops Your Ass,
Dont Come On Twitter And Be Forming Fake Woke— Fresh (@DamiTheOG_) July 19, 2020
She's 18. Fine.
She messed up. Fine.
You cane her. Fine.
Why must you make a video and upload on twitter?— JAG II, Esq. (@jagganiyu) July 19, 2020
You’re beating a child that’s 18 years old which means you’ve been beating that child since she was a kid. And now she’s 18 and she still doesn’t listen to you. That’s a failed parent
— Moxie🤍 (@OG_Rayshell) July 19, 2020
Most people under that tweet are blabbing "She's 18, she can make her decisions, yen yen yen,… African parents this that.."
Agbaya, you should goan rent a self-con apartment for her, so she can go there and be making her own decisions.., 🤡🤡— Champ 👑#Obi-dient (@OnyeomaMilly) July 19, 2020
you're spilling trash cos She's 18 and her Dad is beating her but you're 23 and can't even tell your dad you have a boyfriend.
STFU!!!
— Victor Babatunde (@vhic_tore) July 19, 2020
The same set of people that were condemning a dad for not beating that boy who didn’t sit for exam after his dad paid 21k dolls are that same one condemning a father flogging his daughter because she’s 18. Well continue
— BURNA THE WESTSIDER 🦅🇨🇦#EndSARS (@BurnaWestsider) July 19, 2020
Some of you have forgotten we have a huge cultural difference with the western world. All this she's 18 is a useless as Manchester city yesterday against arsenal.
— BEREEK (@BEREEK_iam) July 19, 2020
Some of you have forgotten we have a huge cultural difference with the western world. All this she's 18 is a useless as Manchester city yesterday against arsenal.
— BEREEK (@BEREEK_iam) July 19, 2020
https://twitter.com/BlessedGhaza/status/1284544674531868674?s=19
I can imagine what the children in that family pass through. The pain, the hatred built against the father, the deep curse by the children on the father. It's okay to correct a child not a total brutality. Dis fada can rape! hysterical.
— Prince Kayode (@AdekeyeKayus) July 18, 2020
This is really upsetting to watch.
Beating a child in Africa has always been a part of parenting, and sure in alot of cases its productive and sometimes very necessary.
But parents need to understand when to stop. She's 18, she's not a child and she's capable of reasoning— Dunni!¡ ♨️ (@Ayomeedai) July 18, 2020
Her father? Why do parents do this nonsense? That is a human being ffs. Why bring kids to the world when you’re intent on killing them through rough upbringing.
— XTRA DIDI✨ (@thic_didi) July 18, 2020
Video via Instagram